1. Plan a trip to the spa and undergo a head-to-toe grooming session. This includes getting a mani, pedi, bikini wax (yes ladies it isn’t so bad trust me), leg and underarm shave. Trust me, getting it all done at once will leave you feeling so fresh and new.

2. Put on your best lingerie set; and if you don’t have a matching set buy yourself one. It makes a big difference knowing that you have on cute underwear, even though no one else knows.

3. Go shopping for shoes! Like they say you will always wear the same size shoes.

4. Take a fitness class; I recommend Pilates or Yoga. Sign up for a class in a studio with no mirrors and focus on the inner you. It’ll make you focus on your body from the inside out, not the outside in.

5. Treat yourself for a massage. Having a massage is a great way to free your mind and just get in tune with your body.